Jade May in the Media

“For ten years, I have been helping people who struggle with being themselves, in various ways. I have a background in photography: imagery was always my way of conveying someone’s message, a message that often couldn’t or wouldn’t be expressed in words. Nowadays, I do this with kink, with dominance.

I try to create a space where someone can fully express themselves without others judging them. Mostly men come to me, often ashamed of the desires and feelings they have. They have suppressed these feelings for too long, causing them to manifest in other ways.

Often in unpleasant ways. They experience pain in their relationships and want to return that pain, verbally, sometimes physically. The outlet I provide is extremely important for them. I find it beautiful to see that total relaxation and surrender in their eyes, how they push their own boundaries, and that I have the tools, literally, to help them with that.

The prejudices about this are still significant. That I use men, that it has no meaning and is merely humiliating entertainment. Even devilish. Yes, it can be that, but many people miss the psychological layer beneath it. A layer that empowers people and helps them progress in life. I find that incredibly valuable and interesting.”