Real life sessions
Of fantasy to reality
There’s fantasy. And there’s reality.
This is where your dreams come to life.
Your submissive side deserves the right setting: safe, discreet, and tailored to your experience, wishes, and boundaries. Whether you’re a beginner or know exactly what you’re looking for, I’ll create an experience that suits your level, preferences, and desires.
My limits & preferences
My Limits
Respect is the foundation of every session.
I only see people who come in with a clear, level-headed, and respectful attitude.
- Perfume or strong scents
- Drugs, alcohol, or other substances
- Any form of illegal activity
- Sex
- Blood
- Scat
- Nudity
- Extreme pain game
- Extreme humiliation
- Sounding
- Being touched unless invited by me.
- Licking anything other than my objects, floor or heels.
My preferences
This is an overview of fetishes and play elements that stimulate me the most.
Do you see something that excites you, or are you looking for something specific that is not listed?
Send me a message through the contact form and I’ll let you know what’s possible.
I'm a soft-dom with a strong presence. My dominance is all about connection, attunement, and subtle control. It's not about screaming for power, but about making sure you feel it.
My style is constructive rather than destructive: sharp, playful, and clear, but never harsh just for the sake of being harsh. I don’t want to simply steamroll over you. I play with what’s going on in your head, mind, and body.
Harsh, meaningless humiliation isn't my thing. I prefer to play with tension, desire, mental control, and surrender.
I challenge you to go beyond mere desire and discover what happens when you truly dare to let go.
My style? Refined. Intellectual. Sensual. Empathetic.
With depth, attention, and just enough edge to keep you on your toes.
You come here for more than just service. You come to feel, to discover, and to grow—both as a submissive and as a person.
In my view, worship is all about attention, respect, and service. You're not here to take, but to give. Not to demand anything, but to acknowledge and honor me.
In my game, this could include, among other things:
- Foot, heels & boot worship
- Ass & body worship
- Mental and verbal worship
- Physical worship exclusively on my terms and at my initiative
Physical contact is never a given and never guaranteed. I decide what you’re allowed to worship, how, and when.
My physical play ranges from sensual to intense. I enjoy impact play, restraints, sensory play, and the deliberate, limited use of tools to build tension and intensity.
My motto in this regard is: less is more. I don’t need to pull out the latest or most impressive tools to make an impact. For me, the power lies primarily in energy, timing, focus, and control—and in how that affects your level of surrender: mentally, physically, and spiritually.
My style typically involves a slow, deliberate build-up. I take the time to read your body, warm you up properly, and guide you deeper into the experience step by step.
The foundation of my physical play often lies in your senses: what you hear, see, feel, and smell. I play with stimuli, expectations, and contrasts, with the goal of helping you spend less and less time in your head and sink deeper and deeper into your submissive side.
My physical play may include, among other things:
- Sensory play: blindfolds, touch, sound, smell, and the deliberate amplification or restriction of sensory stimuli
- Somatic play involves body awareness, breathing, tension, relaxation, surrender, and pressure points.
- Spanking, whipping, flogging, paddles & canes
- Bondage with ropes, cuffs, restraints, chains, and caging (no suspension)
- Nipple play & nipple torture
- Playing with Breathing and Limitations
- Facesitting, fully clothed
- Worship, exclusively on my terms and at my initiative
- Anal training
Anal training and play are among my main areas of expertise and among the topics I have explored in depth over the years. My approach centers on body awareness, safety, relaxation, trust, gradual progression, and learning to recognize physical and mental responses.
I enjoy guiding beginners from their very first introduction to the subject. If you already have experience, the focus can shift to deepening your understanding, control, mental aspects, and further developing your knowledge and skills within your own limits.
To me, financial dominance is much more than simply transferring money. It is a mental and psychological form of surrender, in which money becomes a symbol of power, dedication, discipline, and the conscious relinquishment of control.
I now have nine years of experience with this, and it’s precisely its depth that appeals to me. Why do you give, how does that affect you mentally, and how does your sense of submission change when money becomes part of our power dynamic?
I enjoy working with rituals, exercises, and clear structures related to money. It’s not about paying without thinking, but about consciously experiencing what giving does to you. Excitement, anticipation, pride, discipline, desire, and sometimes even guilt or resistance can all play a role in this.
Financial dominance may include, among other things:
- Financial Domination
- Rituals and tasks related to giving and serving
- Commands and rules regarding money
- Mental training focused on dedication, discipline, intensity, and commitment
- Reward and Consequence Structures
- Exploring the psychological significance that money holds for you within our relationship
- Contracts, Budgeting
For me, financial dominance isn't about recklessness. I play with your relationship to money, not with your financial security. Boundaries, agreements, and financial capacity remain part of responsible play.
When structured properly, a tribute becomes more than just a sum of money. It becomes a ritual of surrender: you consciously choose to entrust something of value to me, under my guidance, as an expression of service.
I explore fetishes with refinement and style.
Some styles are on request, so that each experience remains unique.
- Sissyplay / Sissification
- Roleplay (on request)
- Latex, lingerie, and uniforms on request
- Fetishes: nylon, foot, specific items of clothing
- Humiliation (energy and intention)
- Forced Bi / Gay
- Golden shower
My mental game is intense and challenging.
Push-pull dynamics, assignments, and verbal conditioning enhance your surrender.
- Brainwashing and verbal conditioning
- Assignments and tasks for subs
- Push-pull dynamics: frustration and pleasure
I guide and direct your pleasure, always from my control.
I do not physically perform actions myself; you or machines/toys follow my instructions.
- JOI (Jerk Off Instruction)
- CEI (Cum Eating Instruction)
- Edging & denial
- Orgasm control
The Process
A session with me is not a snapshot, but a carefully constructed process.
1. Fill out the intake form
Enter your preferences, boundaries, and desires. If there’s a match, you’ll receive an email within **3–5 business days**.
2. Introductory Phone Call
We'll start with a (video) call lasting up to 30 minutes to get to know each other and discuss the session.This costs €100 and will be applied as a discount toward your total session price when you book.
3. Booking and Payment
After the introductory meeting, we’ll set a date, and you’ll then receive a payment request for the full session fee, minus the €100 from your intake session. Once payment is received, the agreed-upon date is finalized.
Curious about what a real-life session looks like?
Solo sessions & rates
A solo session with me is intense, personal, and fully tailored to your desires, boundaries, and experience.
Option 1: The beginner experience
€1199,-
For the beginning Sub
This is for you if you are still exploring BDSM. I will guide you step by step through the basics: communication and discovering which forms of surrender within BDSM suit you. This way, you will leave the session with a clear idea of what does and does not suit you and what you would like to explore further.
What you can expect
- Questionnaire about your wishes and boundaries
- A preliminary phone consultation, during which we’ll go over your questionnaire so that everything is clear and you can feel at ease going into the session.
- Playtime: 1.5 hours, including studio rental
- Follow-up to a Phone Call
Option 2: The experienced Sub
from €650
For Subs with experience
This is for you if you already have experience in BDSM and clearly know what you do and don’t enjoy. You know your own limits, are familiar with the traffic-light system, and know how to clearly communicate your hard and soft limits.
What you can expect
- Before the first session, you’ll receive a detailed questionnaire so I’ll know exactly what your kinks are
- Introductory Phone Call
- Your reserved time, including studio rental
Prices*
First session with Mistress Jade: €850 for the first hour. Additional hours during that session: €650 per hour.
*After the first session, the hourly rate is €650.
Duo sessions
€1000 p.u.
For those who crave more: more intensity, more dynamism, more dedication.
In these duo sessions, energies blend effortlessly into refined dominance: two unique perspectives, one shared intention—to deepen your experience and help you surrender even further.
Pick your dominant duo
“Knee-weakening elegance. She reads your desires and tightens the reins until following her is your only choice. A kinky puppet master—and you’re her toy.”
Specialties: Role Play (Strict Headmistress, Mommy Domme, Doctor/Nurse, Therapist), Pain Play (flogging, caning, spanking, humiliation), Feminization.
Together with Jade May, she forms an irresistible redheaded duo: sophisticated, empathetic, and ruthlessly precise when it counts. Beauty with guts, backed by experience and class.
Miss Velvet Courtesan has helped hundreds of men become multi-orgasmic. She seduces you into deeper surrender with class and style, so you can discover what you didn’t even know you were missing.
Specialty: Multi-orgasmic training, tantra massage, dirty talk, findom and femdom.
Together with Mistress Jade, they form a duo of two Queens of seduction and dirty talk. Creative, charming, with tantra in their blood, experienced in worship, and with a generous dose of shared charm and love.
Book your session
The Studio Rêgent The Hague
My in-person sessions take place at Rêgent, my regular studio in The Hague.
The studio does not appear to be a studio from the outside. Discretion is of the utmost importance.
A high-end BDSM studio with multiple dungeons, each with its own atmosphere, setting, and intensity. You can indicate your preference for the space in which your session takes place, so that the experience fully aligns with your wishes and fantasies.
Scroll through the photos and discover which dungeon suits you best. The images speak for themselves: every detail, from the lighting to the equipment, reflects the class, care, and intensity of my sessions.
How to Honor Your Mistress
A gift is more than a gesture. It shows that you have respect, that you take me seriously, that you want to please me. I appreciate that, and it never goes unnoticed.
Indulge me with a gift via the tribute link or choose something from my wishlist. Those who know how to honor also know: true pleasure begins with giving.
Experiences of
my submissives
Read about how others have experienced my guidance, style, and sessions, and discover what my approach to leadership and dominance has meant to them.
Four months ago, I playfully approached Miss Jade, resulting in an intense and genuine online adventure. The open communication, natural dominance, and sincere attention immediately created trust and a lively connection. In the training sessions—app, assignments, calls, and video calls—I felt time and again that Miss Jade is the real deal.
As we explored my preferences and boundaries together, the game became deeper, more exciting, and more personal.
Thanks again, Miss Jade.
The first step to your session
Please specify as clearly as possible what you’d like to do during the session and your preferred date and time.
FAQ - Real-Life Sessions with Mistress Jade May
Every in-person session requires trust, clarity, and safety.
Here you’ll find answers to the most frequently asked questions about preparation, the session itself, boundaries, and aftercare—so you know exactly what to expect when you step into my world.
We always start with a video introduction of about thirty minutes, where we discuss your wishes, boundaries, and intentions. Then follows your session in my studio in The Hague. I also pay attention to aftercare, both at the end of the session and in the days that follow.
Read more on Real Life Sessions
A session with me revolves around the refined interplay between power and submission. I combine mental control with physical experience. Examples include impact play, pegging and anal play, bondage, worship and edging, sissy play, foot fetish, discipline, and training. Always within agreed boundaries. Pleasure arises in the tension of trust and submission, not in sex.
Arrive on time, clean, rinsed if necessary, and without perfume and SOBER. If needed, bring your own attachment to rinse yourself. Otherwise, materials, toys, and attributes are available in my studio. Unless I tell you otherwise. At the same time, I always recommend bringing your favorite toys as well.
Dress codes depend on our preliminary discussion.
Ensure you're sober, clean, and on time, don't use perfume or substances, and have an open, honest attitude. I'll take care of the rest. Your only task is to let go.
I always offer aftercare following the session. This is time and space to land, drink, talk, and integrate. I will also check in with you in the following days, depending on your personal needs.
Yes. For a real-life session, I ask for a deposit of 100 euros prior to our online introductory conversation. You pay the remaining amount of the session costs in full after the video call, after which our appointment is confirmed.
No. Payments are final, so make sure you're certain of your choice before booking.
Do not hesitate.
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Your true climax begins with letting go of control
Review real life session
In an appropriate and playful manner, I approached Miss Jade four months ago and began an exciting online adventure. The authenticity in contact, open communication and playfulness as the norm created a vibrant dynamic from the beginning. The genuine interest and attention across the entire spectrum felt familiar. During the online
Training sessions (messaging assignments, calling, video calling) it was clearly noticeable that Miss Jade was the real deal, wonderful to experience that genuine natural dominance. By exploring style and personal preferences together along the way, the depth and level of the game grew. Boundaries naturally changed into exciting grey areas. During the sessions, the pleasure was palpable for both, which made it extra personal. The chemistry and connection increased the intensity that brought new exciting feelings, thoughts and experiences to light (again, thank you so much;).
