Real life sessions
Of fantasy to reality
There is fantasy. And there is reality.
This is the real deal.
Your submissive side deserves a setting that is right: safe, discreet and tailored to your experience, desires and limits.
Whether you are a beginner or already know what you are looking for, I create an experience that suits your level, preferences and desire.
My limits & preferences
I receive only those who appear before me bright, sober and well prepared.
My preferences
Things I really enjoy doing, but are certainly not limited to:
- Femdom
- Edging
- Pegging
- Anal training
- Impact play
- Worship
- Sissy play
- Foot Fetish
- Golden shower
- Bondage
- Fetish Friendly
- Findom
My Limits
Respect is the foundation of every session.
I only receive individuals who present themselves as clear-minded, sober, and respectful.
- Perfume or strong scents
- Drugs, alcohol, or other substances
- Any form of illegal activity
- Sex
- Blood
- Scat
- Nudity
- Extreme pain game
- Extreme humiliation
- Sounding
- Being touched unless invited by me.
- Licking anything other than my objects, floor or heels.
My fetish list
This is an overview of fetishes and play elements that stimulate me the most.
Do you see something that excites you, or are you looking for something specific that is not listed?
Send me a message through the contact form and I’ll let you know what’s possible.
I am a soft-domme with a strong focus on connection, alignment and sophisticated control.
My dominance is constructive rather than destructive: sharp, playful and clear, but never harsh for the sake of being harsh.
Harsh humiliation does not suit my style. I challenge you to grow, both as a submissive and as a human being!
I can be mean and sadistic, but only in the right dynamic.
My strength? Getting you out of your head and into your submissive body.
Mental control: Protocols, surrender, mind games, hypnosis, docility, roleplay and light humiliation.
Physical control: bondage, impact play, push-pull dynamics, sensory play, pain play, objectification, orgasm training.
Worship is an art. I enjoy worship that is careful, attentive and sincere.
Not rushed, not thoughtless, but with full focus on me and on the moment.
Your devotion shows respect, deepens the tension and strengthens our connection.
Possible forms of worship:
- Foot, heels & boot worship
- Mental and verbal worship
- Physical worship, exclusively on my terms
My physical play is dynamic. It moves between hard and soft, sweet and mean, sensual and attuned to the moment, your reaction and the dynamic between us.
I use tools not to impress, but to deepen your surrender. Less is more is often my starting point: just enough to build tension, strengthen control and invite you further into surrender.
Possible forms of pain play:
- Spanking, whipping, flogging, paddles & canes
- Bondage with rope, cuffs or chastity
- Light forms of CBT
- Nipple play / torture
Physical play:
- Facesitting with clothes on & face slapping
- Milk machine
- Sex machine
- Golden shower
- Breath play, only within my strict limits
Anal play and strap-on training are one of my favorite things to do:
- Anal training for beginners
- Pegging & strap-on play
- Anal play
- Fisting (only after careful training)
Financial domination is a big turn-on.
Rituals and assignments around money and mental training strengthen the dynamics of surrender and dedication.
- Financial domination
- Rituals and commands around tributes
- Mental training: guilt, dedication, tension
I explore fetishes with refinement and style.
Some styles are on request, so that each experience remains unique.
- Sissyplay / Sissification
- Roleplay (on request)
- Latex, lingerie, and uniforms on request
- Fetishes: nylon, foot, specific items of clothing
- Humiliation (energy and intention)
- Forced Bi / Gay
- Golden shower
My mental game is intense and challenging.
Push-pull dynamics, assignments, and verbal conditioning enhance your surrender.
- Brainwashing and verbal conditioning
- Assignments and tasks for subs
- Push-pull dynamics: frustration and pleasure
I guide and direct your pleasure, always from my control.
I do not physically perform actions myself; you or machines/toys follow my instructions.
- JOI (Jerk Off Instruction)
- CEI (Cum Eating Instruction)
- Edging & denial
- Orgasm control
Solo sessions & rates
A solo session with me is intense, personal, and fully tailored to your desires, boundaries, and experience.
Option 1: The beginner experience
€1199,-
For the beginning Sub
This is for you if you are still exploring BDSM. I will guide you step by step through the basics: communication and discovering which forms of surrender within BDSM suit you. This way, you will leave the session with a clear idea of what does and does not suit you and what you would like to explore further.
What you can expect
- Questionnaire about your wishes and boundaries
- Telephone intake in advance, so that everything is clear and you can enter the session with peace of mind.
- Guidance with preparation via WhatsApp or e-mail
- Playtime: 1.5 hours, including studio rental
- Aftercare via e-mail or Whatsapp
Option 2: The experienced Sub
from €650
For Subs with experience
This is for you if you already have experience in BDSM, and clearly know what you do and do not enjoy, and if you have previously had a real-life session with Mrs. Jade. You know your own limits, are familiar with the traffic light system and hard and soft limits, and can clearly indicate your boundaries.
What you can expect
- Prior to the first real-life session, you will receive an extensive questionnaire in advance, so that I know exactly what you need.
- Introductory phone call
- Your chosen hours of playtime, including studio rental.
Prices
First session with Mrs. Jade: €850 for the first hour. Additional hours during that session: €650 per hour. After the first session, an hourly rate of €650 applies.
Duo sessions
€1000 p.u.
For those who crave more—more intensity, more dynamism, more surrender.
I collaborate with carefully selected mistresses and my male dominant partner. In our duo sessions, energies effortlessly merge into refined dominance: two unique perspectives, one shared intention: to deepen your experience and allow you to surrender even further.
We are attuned to each other, amplify each other’s strengths, and yes… expect real double trouble.
Everyone I work with has a minimum of eight years of professional experience.
Pick your dominant duo
“He makes you laugh, tremble, and obey—sometimes simultaneously. Strict when necessary, playful when it hurts, and always with a keen eye for your boundaries.”
Specialty: Cuckold, Anal training, Golden showers, Impact play, Sissyfication
Together with Jade May, he creates impactful experiences: a combination of boundless creativity, playful humor, and intense depth.
“Strict, ruthless, and always seeking your limits. She pushes you to the extreme, with a perfect blend of pain, surrender, and pleasure.”
Specialty: Intense pain play, worship, strap-on training, impact play, bondage
Together with Jade May, she forms an unstoppable duo. We are like two mean sisters who stop at nothing and let you experience how exciting and intense surrender can be.
Helped hundreds of men become multi-orgasmic. Seduces you into deeper surrender with class and style, so you discover what you didn’t even know you were missing.
Specialty: Multi-orgasmic training, tantra massage, dirty talk, findom and femdom.
Together with Jade, they form 2 Queens of seduction and dirty talk. Creative, charming, tantra in their blood, experienced in worship and with a good dose of shared charm and love.
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How to Honor Your Mistress
A gift is more than a gesture. It shows that you have respect, that you take me seriously, that you want to please me. I appreciate that, and it never goes unnoticed.
Indulge me with a gift via the tribute link or choose something from my wishlist. Those who know how to honor also know: true pleasure begins with giving.
The Location — Regent The Hague
My real-life sessions take place in Regent, my permanent, discreet studio in The Hague.
A high-end BDSM studio with multiple dungeons, each with its own atmosphere, setting, and intensity. You can indicate your preference for the space in which your session takes place, so that the experience fully aligns with your wishes and fantasies.
Scroll through the photos and discover which dungeon suits you best. Images speak for themselves: every detail — from lighting to equipment — reflects the class, care, and intensity of my sessions.
The process
A session with me is not a snapshot, but a carefully constructed process.
1. Discussing wishes and boundaries in a (video) call appointment
We always start with a (video) call appointment of ±30 minutes before the first real-life session. You will receive a questionnaire in advance to clarify your wishes and needs.
The deposit for the introductory meeting is €100 and will be deducted when booking the session. Even if you have already worked with me online, this conversation is mandatory for coordination, safety, and trust.
Often, one or more online sessions follow before or after discussing the real-life session, so that dynamics and trust grow and the physical encounter becomes more intense.
2. Session & payment
After a mutual agreement during the introductory meeting, we will schedule the session. After full payment in advance, your session is definitively confirmed.
3. Location & rates
All real life sessions take place in my permanent studio in The Hague, at
Rêgent High-End BDSM studios.
Hygiene, consent, and mutual respect are non-negotiable. The studio is not identifiable from the outside as a studio. Discretion is of utmost importance.
- RATES
- Beginner experience: €1199-
- Experienced sub: €650 and up per hour
- Duo Sessions: €999 per hour
- Online introduction: Deposit €100 (credited upon booking)
- Studio rental: Included
- Location: Regent The Hague
4. Request
Real-life sessions are limited in availability and by appointment only.
Would you like to make a request?
Send a message via WhatsApp or the contact form with a brief introduction about yourself, your experience, and intention.
Curious about what a real-life session looks like?
Experiences of my
Submissives
Every real-life session leaves its mark – in body, mind and memory.
Read what others have experienced when they surrendered completely to my guidance: the excitement, the calm, the intensity.
Real words of true surrender.
Ready to experience the depth of true submission?
Every encounter begins with a first step.
Whether you crave control, awareness or sheer excitement – the journey begins with one message.
Book now your session
Clearly indicate what you are looking for and for which date and time. I will respond as soon as possible with the options.
FAQ - Real-Life Sessions with Mistress Jade May
Every real-life session requires trust, clarity and safety.
Here you will find answers to the most frequently asked questions about preparation, course, boundaries and aftercare – so you know exactly what to expect when you enter my world.
We always start with a video introduction of about thirty minutes, where we discuss your wishes, boundaries, and intentions. Then follows your session in my studio in The Hague. I also pay attention to aftercare, both at the end of the session and in the days that follow.
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A session with me revolves around the refined interplay between power and submission. I combine mental control with physical experience. Examples include impact play, pegging and anal play, bondage, worship and edging, sissy play, foot fetish, discipline, and training. Always within agreed boundaries. Pleasure arises in the tension of trust and submission, not in sex.
Arrive on time, clean, rinsed if necessary, and without perfume and SOBER. If needed, bring your own attachment to rinse yourself. Otherwise, materials, toys, and attributes are available in my studio. Unless I tell you otherwise. At the same time, I always recommend bringing your favorite toys as well.
Dress codes depend on our preliminary discussion.
Be present sober, clean and on time, do not use perfume or substances and have an open, honest attitude. The rest I take care of. Your only job is to let go.
Afterwards I always offer aftercare. This is time and space to land, drink, talk and integrate. I will also check in with you on consecutive days, depending on your personal needs.
Yes. For a real life session, I ask a deposit of 100 euros prior to our online introductory video call. You pay the remaining amount of the session fee in full after the video call, after which our appointment is fixed.
No. Payments are final, so make sure you're certain of your choice before booking.
Do not hesitate.
📲 Send me a message on WhatsApp
📩 Use the contact form
Your true climax begins with letting go of control
Review real life session
In an appropriate and playful manner, I approached Miss Jade four months ago and began an exciting online adventure. The authenticity in contact, open communication and playfulness as the norm created a vibrant dynamic from the beginning. The genuine interest and attention across the entire spectrum felt familiar. During the online
Training sessions (messaging assignments, calling, video calling) it was clearly noticeable that Miss Jade was the real deal, wonderful to experience that genuine natural dominance. By exploring style and personal preferences together along the way, the depth and level of the game grew. Boundaries naturally changed into exciting grey areas. During the sessions, the pleasure was palpable for both, which made it extra personal. The chemistry and connection increased the intensity that brought new exciting feelings, thoughts and experiences to light (again, thank you so much;).
