My Background Approach & Philosophy
I AM MRS. JADE
Welcome to my world of submission, control, and intense pleasure. I am the woman who is simultaneously your calm and your unrest.
The soft voice that seduces you and the gaze that unmasks you. I am no fantasy, I am the real deal and certainly not for everyone.
With one glance, I can bring order to chaos; with one word, I can open what will never close again. I do not play with you. I play through you.
I am not the cliché Mistress in leather and corset, but the woman who commands the room with calm, humor, and precision.
My approach
I enjoy dissecting your desires, exposing what you prefer to keep hidden, and transforming it into something pure and real.
Those who engage in a dynamic with me are challenged to learn about themselves in the depths of surrender.
In my domain, surrender is not a weakness, but an act of courage, a conscious choice to dare to feel.
You are challenged to confront yourself and to free yourself from shame and guilt surrounding your desires.
Perfection is not necessary; authenticity is everything.
Who I am
I am Mistress Jade May, an experienced Domina, Tantrica, and workshop facilitator. I guide you in the art of surrender, with class, intuition, and playful sharpness.
My approach is intense and personal.
I live for the fine line between control and surrender, where play becomes reality and pleasure and discomfort merge.
Do you long for refined seduction, strict discipline, the thrill of the unknown, or personal growth?
I know exactly how to touch you.
Mentally and physically.
And, if you allow it: at your core.
Whoever plays with me discovers more than surrender. You discover yourself.
Tantra and Body Awareness
I attune to your body, listening beyond words and paying attention to your breath and energy. I invite you to be fully present in your body.
Psychology & Mental Strength
Knowledge and years of professional experience in trauma processing.
Playfulness & Control
Not everything needs to be serious; laughter is welcome. Where you release control, true surrender begins.
The Depth of My Background
My background is extensive and rooted in lived knowledge and experience. Both personally and professionally.
I have trained worldwide with masters in tantra, psychology, hypnosis, trauma integration, and somatic work.
I am curious, eager to learn, and someone who is lovingly (slightly) obsessive about growth and development.
What you can experience
My approach is intense, personal, and focused on sustainability. In my sessions, pleasure, pain, submission, and awareness regularly merge into something real.
I strive to create conditions in which you can fully immerse yourself. So that you can truly surrender completely, not merely to break you, but to open you.
I live for that fine line between control and submission, where play becomes reality and pleasure and discomfort converge into something greater: growth.
Safety first
Where direction is clear, surrender follows. Alignment is paramount both in the contact beforehand and during the sessions. This provides you with a solid framework to fall back on.
How to Honor Your Mistress
A gift is more than a gesture. It shows that you have respect, that you take me seriously, that you want to please me. I appreciate that, and it never goes unnoticed.
Indulge me with a gift via the tribute link or choose something from my wishlist. Those who know how to honor also know: true pleasure begins with giving.
Do you wish to experience what this concretely entails?
Discover my services
From online chat and video calls to real-life sessions in my permanent studio in The Hague — each experience is personal, discreet, and intense.
Contact me directly
Do you have questions or wish to book your first experience? Send me a message and step into my world of refined dominance.